5 Ways to Mingle With Guys Easily
At some point in our lives we all have wondered how to start a long lasting conversation with the cute neighborhood boy or a hot man sitting right across the bar. Some of us have inherited natural instincts to talk our way into friendship with the opposite sex. For those who face difficulty in mingling with guys, here are few simple tips to make it easy:-
1. Be yourself:
Always remember that, boys are equally nervous to start a conversation with girls as much as the girls are. So, just keep it simple. Start with a casual hi when he crosses your way in the hallway and give a sweet smile. Pretentious loud mannerisms will easily show. After a couple of such occurrences initiating a talk will be simple and gradually a friendship will develop. At some point you will also be able to approach him quiet comfortably in a group.
2. Find a Common Ground
To be able to find a common subject of interest is one of the easiest ways to mingle with a particular boy or a group of guys. While attending a common friend’s weekend bash, if you want to talk to a guy, listen to what the group around him is talking and participate in the discussion. Accept a casual invitation for a dance and chat up with him over a drink. This will show that you are open to meeting new people. Make sure you introduce yourself so that people know and remember you after the party is over.
3. Step a Foot into the Social Arena
The virtual world is a wide and a huge platform to meet and get to know boys. Social networking sites and also the blind and speed dating websites serve a good means. You could always tweak a few minute details like your name, residence address, etc. until you are sure that the opposite person is interested enough in you. But make sure that you do not portray yourselves as a bunch of lies.
