5 Signs of a Commitment Phobe
You want to know if your guy is phobic to commitment or not? You wonder if your guy is with you just for the fun of it, or is he in it for the long haul? It is really hard to decipher what exactly goes inside a guys mind. It is a question of time as well. Maybe he is just going with the flow, and has not made up his mind. Still, you can use the tricks mentioned here to find out if your guy displays signs of a commitment-phobe, so you can act accordingly.
1. Future is awkward
Whenever you talk about the future of your relationship, things go awkward. He cannot help but show signs of a rat buried under an elephant when conversations start to steer towards things like, “So what are you two doing on Christmas”, when it is two months away. Get the hint, he is scared of commitment.
2. “Where is it going?” triggers blabber
If you ever have a conversation that centers around where you are in a relationship, and your guy is not very fond of commitment, chances are that he will start blabbering and try desperately to close the conversation as soon as possible and move on to something else.
3. Parents? Wait, who?
You do not see any signs that you will get to meet the guy’s parents. And when you mention him meeting your parents, he somehow magically has other plans that he made almost three months in advance. Take the hint, he is petrified of commitment.
