5 Reasons Why Being Demanding is not Good for Your Relationship
4. It makes you seem the ‘high maintenance’ girl
One thing that all guys hate is a ‘high maintenance’ girl, someone who loves the guy for his money, and not for himself. When you start being too demanding materialistically, you are bound to look like that kind of a girl, and your boyfriend wouldn’t want you around anymore. If you work hard for your money and hate to spend it on someone else, then why would you expect him to do that for you? If he does things for you on his own, be more than happy. However, don’t pressurize him by making him feel that he is ‘supposed’ to be doing those things for you.
5. It overshadows your true love
If you are habitually demanding in the relationship, it will soon start affecting your equation with your partner badly. Somewhere, it will overshadow your feelings of love, and will make your partner seem as if he is an entity being ‘used’ for money and fulfilling your demands. He is not a puppet, a toy or a clown; he is someone who loves you dearly and wants to keep you happy. Let him give you that happiness in his own special ways rather than you defining the kind of happiness you want.