4 Signs that You are a True Selfish Lover
3. You pretend to have a headache when he wants sex
This has been a complaint against women for a long time. It is true that women need a bit of more stimulus than men to get all excited about sex, but that does not mean you can keep saying no to him. After a while he would just think of you as a selfish person especially if you take offence when he says not to sex.
4. You are not around when he wants emotional support
You are with him for most parts but shy out when he really needs to lean on you for something. It might be your fear of emotional drama, but it is a very selfish thing to do and as his lover you would be expected not only to satisfy his physical needs, but his emotional needs as well.
There are so many reasons you might give yourself to justify not being around in his time of need, but it would just be interpreted as you being selfish. So if you think you are doing any of the above, it is time you stopped being selfish.
