Dating

12 Good Conversation Starters with a New Guy

Getting a conversation started can sometimes be one of the most difficult things to do. If you have hardly met a guy, but you really really like him and would want to start talking, what can you really say? You don’t want to sound too close, at the same time you don’t want to sound too distant. Neither do you want to look proud and haughty, nor diffident and self-conscious. So obviously that leaves you all confused and in a great dilemma about what are the safe topics that you can talk about to this guy you have hardly met. To help you out, here’s a list of 12 such topics.

1. Weather

Well, weather is really a great saver and a great starter for any conversation – a very safe topic just to get the conversation going. Pleasant weather, you love it weather, you hate it weather – whatever it is, it’s sure to get the talk going.

2. School/ college/ studies/ subjects/ electives

The otherwise boring studies is a great way to get to know the other person. Of course, you need not get into the monotonous details of the subject. All you are doing is wandering into the safe comfortable topic starters. (If you have completed your college, even then it’s a great topic to reminisce about your college days).

3. Sports

You can talk about the upcoming soccer match/baseball match. The topic of sports is always a hit with guys!

4. Phone model talk

Well, whatever phone he’s carrying or you’re carrying – that’s a relatively safer topic to start with. Talking about the phone model, features, what you love about it or don’t. Who knows when the conversation can take an interesting turn and you end up sharing your numbers!