10 Ways You Unknowingly Hurt Your Boyfriend
6. Not taking an extra effort to impress his folks
If he is serious about you, he will surely want his parents to love you. Even a tiny little attempt by you to impress them will be hugely appreciated. However, if you are just not bothered about whether his parents like you or not, he will be under the impression that you are not serious about him.
7. Criticizing him and his dreams
When you are in a relationship, your guy will always want you to respect him and believe in him. If you constantly criticize him and show him that you don’t think that his dreams can be fulfilled, it will break his heart. You are his sweetheart, so he’ll always look up to you for motivation. Hence, you must always believe in your boyfriend’s ambitions and motivate him to achieve them. It will bring him closer to you.
8. Making him feel horrible if it’s his fault
If it is their boyfriends’ fault, girls often make them to literally beg for forgiveness. Now this is really mean. So what if he committed a mistake? Isn’t it human to commit a mistake? If you know that he is really sorry for his doing, you must forgive him and forget that incident. If you treat him like a criminal, you seriously don’t have a heart!
9. Beating around the bush
In a relationship, it is important to be as straightforward as possible. Many a times, you don’t speak directly about your feelings to your boyfriend, and expect him to understand your feelings on his own. For heaven’s sake, he’s not some kind of a supernatural being to read your mind. Your silence and his inability to decode your mind will only leave him frustrated.
10. Dumping your boyfriend disrespectfully
Girls tend to think that once it is over, they can treat their boyfriends however they wish. Whatever happened to ethics? You absolutely have no right whatsoever to treat your boyfriend like a garbage bag while dumping him. Respect the time that the two of you have spent together and peacefully part ways with him.
Once you are done reading this, make a note of all the things that you tend to do. Make a serious attempt to avoid these mistakes, as they can spoil a beautiful relationship.
