10 Ways To Stay As Friends After A Breakup
6. Think about it
Once you are finally over him, it is time to start thinking if you really want to be friends with him. Think of all the problems you may have to face to become friends with him. Also think if it is worth the trouble. When you have thought enough, only then take a step forward.
7. Contact him
Before you contact him, make sure that he is also totally over you. Decide on an appropriate time and venue to talk to him. Also ask him if he wants to talk about the future. You can tell him it is about the two of you reuniting, but this time as friends. In this way, he will also get sometime to think about it.
8. Speak to him
When you speak to him, tell him your opinion with complete honestly and ask him for an honest answer as well. You both can also decide on how to go about it.
9. Don’t talk about the past
The past is long gone, so don’t bring it back. Ask him what is happening in his life currently and be genuinely interested when he talks to you. Be cool and fun to hang out with, only then will he consider becoming your friend again.
10. Be there for him
Stick to what the two of you have decided. If you break your part of the promise of trying to be a friend, you cannot expect him to be on good terms with you after that. Be there for him, when he needs you most.
Breakup may lead to enmity between two individuals. If you try your best to be friends with him but if your ex is not responding, respect his decision. Don’t try to force your friendship on him. If the two of you manage to keep the friendship between you alive after the breakup, you will surely feel proud of yourself.
