10 Ways To Find Out If Your Guy Is Cheating
The biggest breakdown in a girl’s life comes when she finds the prince of her dreams cheating on her. This is the toughest time that any relationship faces when one partner has doubt that the other one is cheating. For a girl, it becomes difficult to go on with her life along with the fear of the existence of the ‘other woman’. However, to help you see things more clearly in a relationship, here are ten ways to find out if your guy is cheating on you.
1. You get a feeling from within
Though most of us do not trust this feeling that we get from within, this is the first indicator that your guy is probably cheating on you. Most girls are blessed with a special sense that flashes warning lights when things are about to go wrong. Thus, when you have a funny squirming feeling that says something is not in place, it would be a wise decision to trust your instinct. Sometimes, the heart makes wiser decisions than the mind. Though we are conditioned to ignore this feeling, do not just let it be, but think about what may have caused you have this feeling. However, do not rely on the feeling alone. Try to have some facts in your hand to prove your point before you confront him.
2. Giving excuses related to work
A common excuse that most men resort to when they start to cheat is being away due to work, as a reason of their delay in arriving home. Extension of working hours at office, increased traveling due to work, going to work related gatherings and social events every other day, staying behind closed doors with his computer when he is home and attending meetings or entertaining clients very often are some work-related excuses that men give when they are cheating their girlfriends/spouses. If you find a sudden change in work pattern, try and find out more from others as well to confirm that your better half is fooling you with the pretext of work.
3. Accusing you of cheating
It is human psychology to accuse someone of something that you may be doing yourself. Your guy may have been trusting you blindly ever since the start of your relationship. However, if he has begun to doubt you and your actions off late, it is something that he might be doing and he suspects you to be doing the same with him. A sudden volley of accusations may arise from the fact that he feels guilty or that he has a fear of losing you due to infidelity. Mistrust in a relationship is a very common occurrence if your partner is cheating.
4. Changing telephone habits
A man’s phone is a big weakness when he is cheating. It can reveal all to his partner. If your doubts are not confirmed yet, you can confirm them easily with this one technique. However, the key word here is ‘observance’. Try and see how he behaves with his phone. Does he leave it all around the house or carry wherever he goes, in extreme cases, even to the toilet? Does his body language change during certain phone calls, with his voice becoming soft, a slight smile on his face but with a tension of your presence building around him? If ever you use his phone, are the call logs always deleted and all the messages erased? If the answer to most of these questions is a yes, you might be with a guy who is cheating on you.
5. Getting a wardrobe makeover
One of the most visible signs of cheating is when your guy wants to change his look completely and gets a wardrobe makeover. He will change his hairstyle and the type of clothes. He would also get obsessed with the mirror and want to look good at all times. His looks will be so important to him that he might suddenly be obsessed with his age and weight and work hard to bring glamor in his life. These are sure signs that he is cheating you as he wants to suit his looks to the preference of his new girl. In short, your partner is readying himself for someone new in his life and intends to leave you if you notice these changes in him.
