10 Signs You are Dating an Emotionally Unavailable Man
6. He doesn’t express his love freely
You know you are dealing with an emotionally unavailable person, when you starve for expressions of love but don’t get them. There are compliments and sparks flowing, words of endearment and the usual expressions of love that elude you when you are dating a guy who isn’t exactly available on an emotional plane.
7. He is shy of public displays of affection
It is the guy who is not very comfortable holding hands in public. The emotionally unavailable man will rarely be seen embracing his lady or holding her close. He maintains not just an emotional or mental distance but also a physical distance from people. Sometimes it is the guy who isn’t too comfortable getting too close to a person even physically, someone who is always walking away from the crowd.
8. He never modulates his voice
The emotionally unavailable person is someone whose voice usually lacks modulation. It is the voice that doesn’t deceive him, doesn’t show whether he is happy or sad, excited or bored, angered or disappointed. It is a useful sign to watch out for right from the first date.
9. He is very formal in his interactions with others
When you watch an emotionally unavailable person, you can see how formal he is in the way he interacts with friends and family members. He is not casual and not forthcoming with gestures like patting the back or having his hands over friends’ shoulders.
10. He goes about his things with monotony
An emotionally unavailable person usually indulges in a routine that lacks much passion. Even if he is passionate about something, the subject doesn’t crop up too often in what he speaks.
