10 Reasons You Should Never Fall For the Forbidden Fruit
6. You won’t receive respect from people
As mentioned earlier, this can become a pattern. You will tend to always fall for the forbidden fruit. And if it is something you compulsively get attracted to, then people around you will also notice this. Eventually, these people will lose all respect for you, as they would feel that you do not have any respect for yourself in the first place.
7. You will waste a lot of time
You invest a lot in such a relationship emotionally. But if you look at such situations practically, you will realize that you lose out on a lot of time like this, which could have rather been invested in something constructive. We live very busy lives, and we all have some or the other purpose to keep us going. But relationships with forbidden fruits can’t be our purpose of life. Only relationships that deserve us, deserve the kind of time we invest in it. You need to realize the worth of both, a relationship, and the time we spend on it, and then act accordingly.
8. You may take people for granted
There are a lot of people around you, who are easily available. They are good for you and are capable of loving you more than anybody else. You overlook them in between all the madness you have in your life for things that are forbidden to you. You need to look out of the forbidden area. Look out for someone who appreciates your worth, and is actually available for you. Be with a person who is capable of having a healthy relationship with you.
9. You might feel lonely
It is very easy to feel lonely in a relationship like this. Since the involvement is only from one side, there is a lack of company. This kind of loneliness can affect your mental ability to think good for yourself, and can lead to depression. A relationship, above all, is to provide you with happines, and to give you company. And if you feel lonely, then you are not exactly in a relationship.
10. You may be taken for granted
When you do something for a person who is forbidden for you, that person knows that you are going to such an extent for him, despite knowing the fact that he is giving nothing to the relationship. If you keep continuing like this, then in due course of time, the person would feel that he can take you for granted, and can ask for anythiung. A lot of unnecessary expectations follow. You will not even mind doing such things for the person because you think that will help to win him, but for him, he has someone to fulfil his demands without any expectations in return. You need to realize that this simply means you are being taken advantage of.
One should keep all these things in mind when falling for the wrong person. A forbidden fruit may seem exciting initially, but you need to get over that excitement and get a reality check. You need to see what is good for you in the long run and must go for that, instead of looking at short-term meaningless relationships.
