10 Reasons You Should Kiss and Tell
6. If you are new at it, you can check with your friends whether you did it right
Like mentioned earlier, often when you are new at all this physical stuff, you really need to sit down with friends and deconstruct your encounter. You need to figure out how the guy responded to it, and what does it mean. Discussing it will help you come up to proper conclusions.
7. If you are guilty about a hook up, talking about it will make things lighter
Often, you randomly hook up with someone and you are not proud of it. To lighten your burden, you should really take out the time to put your thoughts together, and also discuss it with people who are close to you. They will share their similar experiences and will empathize with you, and you would come to know that you are not the only one who messed up.
8. To figure out the guy
Sometimes, you get the feeling that you have met the right one, and that your relationship is meant to go somewhere. But it’s not necessary that the guy, you hooked up with, feels the same. So it’s important to kiss and tell friends to get their opinion, and understand whether what the guy did was just a random fling, or he too might be feeling something for you. Friends can often tell you the right signs and symptoms to look for, so you can understand things better.
9. If you are angry about your decision, you can talk it out
There are times when you are frustrated with your life. You feel vulnerable and you get involved with someone without thinking about it. Often, such decisions lead to frustration and anger. That anger is required to come out in a civil manner. You should sit with your friends and talk about it. It will help you to see things clearly, and even if you do not get any solutions from this exercise, sometimes, just talking helps a lot.
10. He is a nice catch and you want to flaunt him
Sometimes, the guy you have been involved with is quite a hunk and you have an instant urge to flaunt him. In order to do that, you can’t keep your ‘oh so secret’ life a secret. You need to let it out. Tell your friends about the experience and bask in glory.
So the next time when you get involved with someone physically or are in a relationship, and you are confused whether you should tell anyone about it, consider these reasons and think about all the great advice and discussions that can follow. Don’t fret about it so much. If you want to talk about it, you should. And there is no harm in doing that!
