10 Reasons Why Having a Boyfriend is Boring
6. You have to deal with identity crisis
Brangelina (Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie), Kimye (Kim Kardashian and Kanye West) are just some of the many celebrity couple names that we come across in the media. This does not always happen with celebrities only. Often, regular couples too are treated like one single entity. There is an amount of identity crisis one has to deal with when dating a person. Wouldn’t you hate being always referred to as someone’s girlfriend? Come on, there is more to life and definitely a lot more to you!
7. Long pointless conversations on the phone can be boring
Couples initially love to talk for hours and hours together on the phone, but once you are with a guy for a long time, there is not much left to talk, and one needs to leave things to talk about for meetings as well. Most relationships are dragged on these pointless conversations, which are not only a waste of time, but also not constructive in any manner. In fact, time saved from that can be spent on exciting things that you have been procrastinating on for a long time.
8. Everybody enjoys space
No matter how social you are, everyone requires and even enjoys their alone time. Sometimes you just want to be with yourself, do your things, and have a nice relaxed day. A relationship can be like a full time job, where you are always expected to spend your free time with your boyfriend to make the relationship work. That often leaves no time for yourself.
9. Forced friendships come along with a boyfriend
Often in a relationship, one befriends people who one is not really very fond of. Of course, no one wants to break their boyfriend’s heart by telling him that his friends don’t excite you in any way. These forced friendships make some outings really dreadful.
10. Men can be needy
Very often, men suffer from mommy issues. They always need somebody to take care of them. Occasionally, one would love to be caring, but if it becomes a lifetime duty, it is just bugging. He’s an adult after all, and not a child!
So all you girls out there who relate to this uneasy and boring feeling of being with a man can actually think about all this, and maybe come out of a dreadfully boring relationship. Don’t be with a guy just because it is convenient; be in a relationship for the excitement. And all you single ladies out there, cheers to a life lived on our own terms!
