8 Ways to Know If You are Dating a Womanizer
5. He’s not looking for something serious
Even though at the start of the relationship he must have mentioned that you mean the world to him and that you are probably the only woman he has ever thought of spending his life with, the flattery would fade out soon. Some months later, if he’s avoiding talking about anything serious, or constantly presses on the fact that he is not relationship material, then may be he’s just hinting at the fact that he wants you to be ‘casual’ with him. Moreover, he might constantly be quoting examples of open relationships of all his female friends to support his point.
6. He’s always networking with women
Is the ratio of his male to female friends always bending more towards the latter? Does he always connect with attractive females on social media websites, parties, in office, during official trips? That’s a sign that he’s looking at creating more options for himself. In other words, these are the people he wants to have fun with, sooner or later.
7. He’s distracted
Do you find him checking out other women even when he’s on a date with you? That’s a sign of a guy who always gets distracted with other good-looking women. It shows that he is not so into you, and is not exactly having a proper relationship with you. These kinds of guys are also afraid of any kind of ‘commitment’ related talks or moves.
8. He backs out when you need him the most
He may have promised the world’s happiness to you when you started seeing each other, but when it comes to dealing with your problems and helping you out, he may be making excuses of being busy or having some other commitments. That marks the point or stage in your relationship with him where he is starting to lose interest in you, and now needs a new person to entertain him.
All of these signs indicate that you’re probably the last on his list of priorities. If you are meeting for sex, then he’d probably come soon. But for anything else, he may refuse to meet you, some months into you guys being together. So analyze his moves carefully and smartly, and don’t let your emotional heart overpower your logical head. Just don’t overdo it. So in case he’s a genuine guy, you don’t end up losing him because of constantly judging him. Be smart (enough) and not over smart!
