To Forgive Or To Move On – How Can You Decide
Is there a practical solution?
Relationships are hit by all sorts of problems. Cheating, abusing, name-calling and much more. How deep is your problem? Does the problem have an end in sight? I know it’s tough, but if you have been hurt, cheated upon or left to fend for yourself, the first thing you should look out for are practical solutions. If you can’t find any, move on lady.
Is it worth the effort?
It takes nerves of steel to deal with a relationship that is on the rocks. Top it off with a broken heart, it is worse. Don’t you feel that sometimes you let the troubles go on and on without an end in sight? If you want to forgive your partner and rekindle the romance, ask yourself, will your forgiveness be worth the effort that you put in to make the wounds of betrayal go away? Will the happy times be good enough? If the answer is a clear yes, then work your way to forgiving your partner and give it your best shot.
Does he deserve me?
Lady, you are much more than you think. You are the charm of his life and you bring a smile to his face, everyday. After all this, if he has still betrayed you, it’s time that you take a tough stand and ask yourself if he deserves a beautiful and caring woman like you. I think it is important to maintain a balance of mutual caring, togetherness and respect. If he is taking advantage of your loving nature, call it quits. If he does not deserve you, move on lady.
I suggest that you pick a carefree Sunday morning to sit back and sip some hot coffee from your favorite mug. Look outside the window and gaze into the unknown. Ask yourself these questions. Because once your inner soul gives you answers to these questions, the dilemma will be out of your sight and the final choice of forgiving or moving on will be right in front of you.
