10 Dating Tips for Introverted Girls
6. Don’t pretend to be what you aren’t
If you are an introvert, there is no point in giving an impression of being vivacious and bubbly, because you will not be able to maintain it for a long period of time. There is no harm in being an introvert. Don’t try to change yourself for a date. Date someone who accepts you as you are.
7. Don’t fall for smooth talkers
Okay, you’re thrilled that someone so suave and charming has asked you out. But at the same time, don’t fall only for the charm. See if the underlying person is worth falling for. Don’t just go with a guy because you are desperate to being with one. Go with someone who finds you attractive and wants to be with you.
8. Meet like-minded guys
Like-minded guys will be around at places that you love going to, like maybe the library, or coffee shop or a music class. Any place you enjoy going to could be where you get to meet like-minded people.
9. Don’t reveal your desperation
If you’re on a first date, get to know the person. Don’t reveal your desperation. It may put him off.
10. Take help from friends
Sometimes friends can be very helpful in introducing you to a guy who they know will be good for you. Since friends know you, meeting guys they introduce you to can be more comfortable than meeting a stranger.
Remember, if you’re an introvert, you can’t expect people to really know who you are and accept you unless you allow them to get to know you.